My first example of mediumship entering my dreamscape occurred when I was 12. I woke up to my grandfather in my bedroom and asked him what he was doing in my house and room. He told me he was going away and wanted to say goodbye before he did. He said he was fine and was not cold anymore. He will see me again when my hair is his colour (grey). I told my mum that grandad had died and she did not believe me. We found out a few days later that he had a fall and could not get up. He died on the floor, in winter, in Melbourne.